And it’s f-cking beautiful

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By Michelle Talsma Everson, 2021

“Before you belong to someone else, belong to yourself…”


Somewhere in the middle of

All the chaos

I grew.

I’m growing.

It’s beautiful.

No longer writing in third person

No longer settling for less than

I’m changing the narrative

Of who and what I’ll allow and accept

And it’s f-cking beautiful.


It’s not that I’m no longer myself.

It’s just that life is too short

To not know my value.

I must hold myself accountable

And expect the same out of others.

I am grateful for my life.

I love it most days.

And that has nothing to do with

A man or a person

Besides myself

And the world I create.


Somewhere in the middle of

All the chaos

I grew.

I’m growing.

I’m all done accepting and making excuses.

And it’s f-cking beautiful to behold.